What Do I Need To Do After A Loved One Passes Away?

I speak with many, many Tennessee families every day regarding planning their estates and estate settlement. However, I also speak with the Tennessee families that have aging parents, and the most common question that they have is:

“What Do I Need to Do After A Loved One Passes Away”

This appears to be a very common question and a very common concern of many individuals and families that have aging parents.
The death of a loved one can be very a stressful process. There are usually many things that are going through your head including:

  1. How Are We Going to Pay for the Funeral Costs?
  2. Did Mom or Dad Have a Last Will and Testament, and If So, Where Is It?
  3. Did Mom or Dad Have a Lawyer?
  4. What Bills Need to Be Paid?
  5. How Are We Going to Divide All The Furniture and Belongings in Mom or Dad’s House?
  6. What Do We Do With Their Home? Should We Sell It?
  7. Are There Taxes That Are Going To Be Due? If So, When? 

These are just a handful of questions that may be going through the minds of an adult child or children after the death of one of their parents. However, there is a process that you should go through to make things easier following the death of a loved one.

1. Attempt to Gather All of Your Loved One’s Personal Papers

This is a good first step. This would include gathering all of your loved one’s bank statements, investments accounts, retirement accounts, and other financial accounts. It would also include all of your loved one’s final bills, life insurance policies, and last will and testament (if your loved one died with a valid will at the time of their death). Hopefully, you will also have the name of your loved one’s estate planning attorney who prepared the final will. 

2. Schedule an Appointment with Your Loved One’s Estate Planning Attorney

The next step should be to gather the entire family who are set to inherit under your loved one’s will and schedule an appointment with the estate planning attorney who prepared the last will and testament. The attorney will be able to explain the process moving forward which will include opening a probate estate with the probate court, admitting the last will and testament to the probate court, confirming the executor of the will, and filing a detailed accounting and inventory with the court outlining all of the assets and debts that are part of your loved one’s probate estate. In addition, the attorney will likely inform you that all valid claims and debts will need to be paid out of the proceeds of the estate prior to distributing the remaining assets to the family members. Also, depending upon how certain bank accounts were titled, the bank accounts may be frozen and unable to be accessed until the executor has been confirmed by the probate court and the frozen accounts transferred into new estate accounts. If you loved one died without a will, or if the attorney is no longer in business, the family will need to hire their own lawyer to start the probate court process. 

3. The Funeral Bill Will Need to Be Paid

One of the aspects of probate is that the court will need to see proof that the funeral bill has been paid prior to the probate proceeding moving forward. Therefore, you will need to pay the funeral bill. This may need to come out of pocket if the executor cannot be confirmed prior to the funeral. In this case, this is a claim that can be submitted to the probate court for reimbursement. 

4. Life Insurance Claims Will Need to Be Filed

If your loved one had life insurance policies, then claims will need to be filed with the life insurance companies. This will include contacting the life insurance company, obtaining their claim form, completing and submitting the claim form to the insurance company, as well as sending them a copy of the death certificate of your loved one. 

5. TennCare Release Will Need to Be Obtained and Filed With the Probate Court

TennCare is the state agency that is responsible for the implantation of the Medicaid program in Tennessee. If an individual incurs Medicaid benefits during their lifetime, then after that person’s death, Medicaid (TennCare) is entitled to receive reimbursement for all the benefits that were paid out during that individual’s lifetime. Therefore, regardless of whether or not a person has incurred TennCare benefits during their lifetime, a release will need to be obtained from TennCare and that release will need to be filed with the probate court. In addition, nearly every title company will require to see a copy of this TennCare release before proceeding with the sale of any real estate. 

6. An Estate Sale May Need to Take Place

The next step may include holding an estate sale. This is a process where an auction takes place auctioning off all of the personal property (cars, furniture, firearms, jewelry, electronics, TVs, etc.) in your loved one’s home and then depositing the proceeds into an estate account and informing the court of the property that has been liquidated. 

7. The Sale of Real Estate

When it comes to selling the real estate of your loved one, this may take over a year to complete. First, as stated above, you will need to obtain a TennCare release before a title company will agree to proceed with the closing of any sale of that real estate. In addition, from a practical standpoint, you will not be able to sell the real estate for a period of one year from the date of death. In Tennessee, there is a law that says that anyone who purchases a piece of real estate within one year of the date of that individual’s death is taking that real estate subject to any valid creditor claims. Realistically, no one would purchase a piece of real estate under those terms. Therefore, it may take a year or more to sell the real estate. 


As you can see, the process after a loved one dies can be very stressful and full of laws and rules that can trap you if you are not careful and do not have the assistance of a knowledgeable and experienced estate planning and probate attorney. If you have questions about what to do after a loved one passes away and how to plan your estate so the entire probate process is avoided, then please contact our office for a complimentary visit so that we can discuss your estate planning needs and concerns in further detail.

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